I'm In Love With My Friend's Man and It's Her Fault

Let me start from the beginning. My friend’s fiancé moved to my city last year and since then she comes to visit every other month. The second time she came to town she asked me to come and stay with her in his place as he goes to work during the day and that’s how I started spending time there. He is a very nice guy and we all got along very well. When my friend left I went back to my house.
Next thing I know she started asking me to go and keep him company when she’s away, or to escort him to places because he doesn’t know his way around.


If he wants to go and hang out she’ll beg me to go with him because he doesn't have friends in town and because she doesn’t want him to start chasing other girls or vice versa.
So we started hanging out occasionally. Whenever my friend is in town she will ask me to come over and I’ll go and stay with them. When she left I started spending more and more time with him but it was very innocent and she knew about it. She even asked me to help her cook for him occasionally and I started cooking and taking over to his place.
During this period I broke up with my boyfriend and it was my friend’s boyfriend that was there for me and consoled me. T this was when I really started having feelings for him. My friend still knew that we were friends and she didn't mind. One night I went to a club in his area and since he lived nearby I went to sleep in his place instead of driving all the way home, although we didn't do anything we spent the whole night talking and I really wanted to make love to him.


I know it is mutual but nobody wants to make the first move. My friend is coming to town next week and I’m dreading it. I love this guy more than I loved my ex and somehow we feel perfect together. Honestly I did not plan this to happen and it is not in my nature, that is why my friend trusted me so much with her boyfriend, not that she’s naive.
I really don’t want to hurt her but I don’t think I can bear to see them together and I can’t stop thinking about him. I know you will say I should forget him and not hurt my friend bla bla but it’s not that easy. I really love this guy and before u judge me remember she was the one that pushed me to it. What if we are meant to be, what if God used my friend to bring us together?


Please what will you do if you are me?

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